About Peter

A life of love, laughter, and lasting impact

Peter Norman Tudhope Nelson

Peter Norman Tudhope Nelson

16 June 1952 - 24 March 2026

Peter was a devoted husband, loving father, and cherished friend to many. His warmth, wisdom, and unwavering kindness touched the lives of everyone who had the privilege of knowing him.

Build Me a Son

Build me a son, O Lord, who will be strong enough to know when he is weak, and brave enough to face himself when he is afraid; one who will be proud and unbending in honest defeat, and humble and gentle in victory.

Build me a son whose wishbone will not be where his backbone should be; a son who will know Thee and that to know himself is the foundation stone of knowledge.

Lead him, I pray, not in the path of ease and comfort, but under the stress and spur of difficulties and challenge. Here let him learn to stand up in the storm; here let him learn compassion for those who fail.

Build me a son whose heart will be clear, whose goal will be high; a son who will master himself before he seeks to master other men; one who will learn to laugh, yet never forget how to weep; one who will reach into the future, yet never forget the past.

And after all these things are his, add, I pray, enough of a sense of humour, so that he may always be serious, yet never take himself too seriously. Give him humility, so that he may always remember the simplicity of true greatness, the open mind of true wisdom, the meekness of true strength.

— General Douglas MacArthur

Beloved Family

Peter is survived by his loving wife Elaine and their children Bryan, Nadine, and John.

Together, they invite you to join them in celebrating Peter's life and the lasting legacy of love he leaves behind.

Celebration of Life

Monday, 30 March 2026

11:00 AM - 12:30 PM

The Riverside Manor
101 Leeuwkop Rd, Sunninghill, Sandton

A simple ceremony followed by time to share memories together over refreshments.